Alone

• This kind of thing.

• Compared to 1-2 years ago, I feel like I’ve become more inclined to think and be motivated to “do something with others”.

  • Recent examples: KAGAMI - Ryuichi Sakamoto’s Mixed Reality Concert, Tokyo Rakugo Performance ／ Yose
    • I think if it was me a year ago, I would have gone to see Rakugo alone without hesitation, but now I’m looking for someone to go with.
    • I feel like I’ve changed, you know. (blu3mo)
    • Oh, same here. (haruhi)
      • Is it just because I have more friends who are easy to invite?
      • Until recently, I used to boldly go to places where I didn’t know the etiquette alone.
        • Looking back now, it’s a bit cringe.

• It can be said that it’s good in the sense that I’ve discovered new enjoyment.

• On the other hand, I think it’s not good that I’m starting to feel anxious about “doing something alone”.

  • Knowing What is Enough is important.
  • It’s quite important whether I’m actively doing something alone or if I’m doing something alone because there’s no one to spend time with (kota-yata).
    • The more friends who are easy to invite, the better, and on top of that, being able to choose to do something alone.

• It’s best to be able to enjoy both.

  • That’s true.
  • Regardless of which choice I make, it’s important to be able to affirm that experience afterwards Affirming Life.
    • Instead of using the value of “having fun spending time with others” as a pre-evaluation, use it only for post-evaluation when it’s convenient.