from Building human relationships
- Building human relationships is not about getting along with everyone you meet or fitting into every community you join.
- In fact, even at the University of Tokyo, I didn’t feel like I fit in with about half of the circles I explored.
- (I think this also depends on each person’s communication skills) (blu3mo)
- Also, many deep relationships are often formed by chance.
- Serendipity.
- Specifically, I thought that connecting with some people in Basi was the result of a series of coincidences.
- The same goes for joining the Idobata community.
- So, I think we should increase the number of attempts.
- i.e. I realized that actively joining communities and interacting with people is important.
- Well, when I put it like this, it seems obvious.
- It’s a trade-off with the cost of trying.
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- However, especially in the early stages of university, I thought it was worth allocating resources to this aspect (active participation in communities) (blu3mo).
- Also, it seems important to have the mental capacity to allocate resources there in the first place.
- I think I’m the type who uses a lot of energy in communication.
- I also thought there is a synergy effect in connecting with people you have interacted with on multiple occasions.
- For example, talking to someone at the recommendation students’ meeting and finding out they are in the same seminar.
- Or finding out that someone who took the same class is also in the same circle.
- I thought that relationships deepen through such opportunities.
- I understand. I have also met people by chance through various lectures and events (takker).
- Although the following year, 2020…
- In that respect, it was lucky that (blu3mo) coincided with the transition to an endemic state and the increase in face-to-face opportunities.
- +1 (blu3mo)
- I hope you actively participate in various opportunities and increase the number of chances.
(/icons/good story) (takker)