Have you ever been involved in interpersonal trouble?

• Throughout my life, I feel like I have never been involved in what is called “interpersonal conflicts.”

  • (Originally, the title was something like “Have you ever had a dispute with someone?” but then I remembered that I had them with club activities or my parents.)

• I tend to observe conflicts from a distance, thinking, “Oh, they’re arguing.”

  • I feel like I only interact with one party or have a decent relationship with both parties.
    • It’s not like I’m saying things that are convenient for both parties (blu3mo).

• In some cases, I feel like I only find out about the existence of conflicts afterwards.

• Could this be quite a special ability?

• Hypotheses for explanation:

  • 1 People who have not been involved in conflicts simply do not mention it, and the majority of people are not actually involved in conflicts.
    • A typical cognitive bias.
  • 2 The theory that I am erasing conflicts from my memory.
    • Hmm, I’m not sure.

• Well, I feel like the narrowness of my relationships is closely related to this.