Manners

• Personally, I believe that the difference between “manners to be observed” and “unnecessary manners” lies in whether they make the other person happy by being observed.#happiness
  • Manners such as seating arrangements do not necessarily make anyone happy.
• But when I think about it, based on the above definition,
  • If observing “unnecessary manners” actually makes the other person happy, then it would mean that these manners should also be observed.
    • Based on the above definition, if a subordinate observes the rule of seating arrangements and it makes their boss feel good, then it should be observed.
  • The cost to the observer is not included in the definition.
• This differs from my own perspective.

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